Subjunctive after emotions: me alegra que

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Grammar path · Lesson 46 of 86 · Stage B1 · The subjunctive

When you react emotionally to what someone else does, whether you feel happy, sad, annoyed or afraid, Spanish puts the verb after que in the subjunctive. The core idea: the second clause is something you are reacting to, not information you are asserting, so the subjunctive is used even when the fact is true. The pattern is emotion phrase + que + subjunctive, as in Me alegra que estés aquí. The most common mix-up: when the person feeling and the person acting are the same, use the infinitive with no que, as in Me alegra estar aquí.

Practise this lesson · 9 sentences

Form

AffirmativeMe alegra que + subjuntivo
Me alegra que estés aquí.I'm glad you're here.
NegativeNo me gusta que + subjuntivo
No me gusta que llegues tarde.I don't like it when you arrive late.
Question¿Te molesta que + subjuntivo?
¿Te molesta que abra la ventana?Do you mind if I open the window?

When to use it

Joy and pleasure

Use it when you are glad about or enjoy what someone else does. For a finished action, use the perfect subjunctive haya + participle.

Me alegra que hayas venido a la fiesta.I'm glad you came to the party.
Me encanta que vivas tan cerca.I love that you live so close.

Annoyance and dislike

Use it to complain about someone else's behavior. Change the emotion verb and the structure stays the same.

Me molesta que los vecinos hagan tanto ruido.It bothers me that the neighbors make so much noise.
No me gusta que me hables así.I don't like you talking to me like that.

Sorrow, fear and surprise

Use it to express sympathy, worry or surprise about something. For fear, the phrase is usually tengo miedo de que.

Siento mucho que no puedas venir.I'm very sorry you can't come.
Tengo miedo de que llueva mañana.I'm afraid it will rain tomorrow.

Signal words

me alegra queme gusta queme encanta queme molesta queme preocupa queme sorprende quelamento quetengo miedo de quees una lástima queestoy contento de que

Don't confuse it with

Subjunctive after wishes: quiero que

Both use que + subjunctive with a change of subject, but this page is an emotional reaction to something, often already real: Me alegra que vengas. If you want or ask someone to do something that has not happened yet, it is a wish: Quiero que vengas. Look at the main verb: emotion or desire.

Frequently asked questions

The fact is true, so why use the subjunctive after me alegra que?

Because the clause is what you are reacting to, not information you are asserting. Me alegra que estás aquí is wrong; say Me alegra que estés aquí.

When do I use the infinitive instead of que + subjunctive?

When the person feeling and the person acting are the same. Me alegra estar aquí means I am glad that I myself am here.

How do I talk about the past, as with me alegró que?

When the emotion verb is in the past, use the imperfect subjunctive: Me alegró que vinieras.

Does siento que always take the subjunctive?

No. Meaning sorry, it takes the subjunctive: Siento que no puedas venir. Meaning I sense, it takes the indicative: Siento que algo está mal.

Does es una lástima que take the subjunctive?

Yes. Impersonal emotion phrases like es una lástima que or es increíble que also take it: Es una lástima que te vayas.

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