Double object pronouns: se lo, se la

A2

Grammar path · Lesson 31 of 86 · Stage A2 · Object pronouns

You need this whenever you say someone gives, sends or tells something to someone without repeating both nouns, as in 'I gave it to her'. The indirect pronoun comes first, the direct pronoun second, then the verb: me lo, te la. But Spanish never says le lo or les la: le/les turns into se, giving se lo, se la, se los, se las. With an infinitive or an affirmative command, the pair attaches to the end of the verb: dárselo, dígaselo. Do not confuse this se with reflexive se: here it simply means 'to him, to her, to them, to you'.

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Form

Affirmativese + lo/la/los/las + verbo conjugado
Ana se lo dio a su hermano.Ana gave it to her brother.
Negativeno + se + lo/la/los/las + verbo conjugado
No se lo dije a mi jefe.I didn't tell my boss.
Question¿se + lo/la/los/las + verbo conjugado?
¿Se la mandaste a tus padres?Did you send it to your parents?
Attached to infinitive or commandinfinitivo/imperativo + se + lo/la/los/las
Voy a explicárselo mañana.I'm going to explain it to him tomorrow.

When to use it

Avoiding repetition when giving, sending or lending

When both the thing and the receiver are already clear, replace both with se + lo/la/los/las. The direct pronoun must match the thing in gender and number.

Pedro necesitaba el coche y se lo presté.Pedro needed the car, so I lent it to him.
Mi abuela quería ver las fotos, así que se las mandé.My grandmother wanted to see the photos, so I sent them to her.

Attached to an infinitive or a command

After an infinitive or in an affirmative command, se lo is written onto the end of the verb and usually needs an accent mark.

Tengo el regalo de Lucía y voy a dárselo esta noche.I have Lucía's gift and I'm going to give it to her tonight.
Si tienes la carta, dásela a tu mamá.If you have the letter, give it to your mom.

Polite speech with usted, ustedes and clarifying the receiver

Se can also mean usted or ustedes, so it is very common in restaurants and shops. Add a él, a ella, a usted to make clear who se is.

La cuenta ya se la traigo, señores.I'll bring you the check right away, gentlemen.
Se lo expliqué a ella, no a él.I explained it to her, not to him.

Two pronouns together: indirect first, le / les → se

me + lo / lame lo da · me la da
te + lo / late lo doy · te la doy
le / les + lo / la → sese lo doy · se la doy · se los doy
nos + lo / lanos lo explica
with an infinitive or a commandquiero dártelo · dámelo

Don't confuse it with

Direct object pronouns: lo, la, los, las

Lo, la, los, las stay the same inside se lo; you only add se when there is also a receiver. If the sentence has only the thing and no receiver, use lo/la alone: Lo compré, not Se lo compré.

Indirect object pronouns: le, les

Le and les are only used on their own. As soon as lo, la, los or las follows, they must change to se: Le di el libro but Se lo di.

Frequently asked questions

Why do you say se lo and not le lo?

Spanish does not allow le or les right before lo, la, los, las. So le/les always change to se in this case.

Which pronoun comes first in se lo?

The indirect pronoun (the receiver) always comes first and the direct pronoun (the thing) second: se lo, me la, te los.

When do you write dárselo as one word?

With an infinitive, a gerund or an affirmative command, the pronoun pair attaches to the end of the verb and usually takes an accent: dárselo, dígaselo. With a conjugated verb it goes before: se lo doy.

How do I know if se means him, her or you?

Use the context, or add a clarifying phrase like a él, a ella, a usted: Se lo di a ella.

If the receiver is plural, do you say se los?

Not necessarily: se never changes for the number of receivers. Lo/los agree only with the thing, so giving them one book is still se lo di.

More in Pronouns

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